Do You Know the Effects of the Different Personality Archetypes?

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― Anurag Prakash Ray

In social dynamics, there are four main personality archetypes and they’re not gender-specific. To show you each, let’s imagine you’re in a two-piece suit attending a fancy party for work.

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The Supplicative (Submissive) Type

The room has many of your coworkers and you see one of your direct reports. Let’s call him John.

You walk up to him and start a conversation. You genuinely ask him how he is doing to build some rapport. As the conversation moves on, you find John is not being his usual self. Constantly showering you with compliments of how great of a boss you are, he even offers to buy you a drink even though it’s an open bar.

Overcoming perplexity, you realized why he is acting this way. John had recently mentioned to you that he wants a promotion.  He is doing all this trying to please you and win your approval. Now John here is the classic type of the supplicative or submissive person.

If there is a sign over his head, it would be “PLEASE LIKE ME!

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His body language is inward and doesn’t take up space. In addition, he tends to speak in high-pitched tones indicating low-status.

The proper behavior to deal this type of person is to give him acceptanceYou honestly tell John you appreciate his work and will do your best to grant him that promotion, but no guarantees. John will feel ecstatic hearing this and will stop trying to win you over. 

After ending your conversation with John, you hear your favorite song playing in the background.

The Combative Type

You slowly move to the dance floor and bust out your favorite dance moves; mine is the Gangnam Style. One of your coworkers walks up in front of you. Let’s call him Steve.

Steve tells you he has seen the Gangnam Style music video countless times and you’re disgracing its dance moves. He tells you you’re offbeat and your body is too stiff.

Here, Steve is the combative type. If he has a sign above his head, it would be “YOU SUCK!

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The proper behavior for dealing with this type of person is to give him approval. This will increase his self-worth and allow him to lower his guard.

For Steve, you can tell him that he is right – you’re doing the dance moves wrong. Afterward, you can ask him to show you how it’s properly done.

The last thing you would want is to confront him. To avoid that, you would either use neutral (standing side by side) or negative body language (turn your back towards him), instead of positive body language (standing face to face with him).

Since most of our communication is nonverbal, the best way to diffuse a high-tension situation is to turn our body away from others.

The Competitive Type

Now after learning the new dance moves from Steve, you start implementing them as your favorite song is still playing. In the midst of your dance, someone taps you on the shoulder. You turn around to see who it is.

As it turns out, it’s your manager Peter. He says you have some decent dance moves. Thinking superiorly, he challenges you to a dance-off by showing off his dance moves.

Peter here is an example of the competitive type. The sign above his head says, “I AM BETTER THAN YOU!

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The proper behavior to deal with this type of person is to give him compliments.

You can tell Peter his dance moves are amazing and ask him where he learned them. You wouldn’t want to compete with him regardless if you know how to dance or not. That’s irrelevant because he doesn’t want anyone to rain on his parade. 

When you agree with others and give them genuine compliments, they won’t want to argue with you.

Now that your favorite song is over. You leave the dance floor and migrate to the bar for another drink.

The Cooperative Type

After getting a refill, you are greeted by the CEO of your company. Let’s call him Nick. Nick greets you and starts building some rapport with you. He begins by asking how your night is going.

Then he transitions into genuinely complimenting about your skillful dance moves. His wife comes over and Nick introduces her to you. To make you feel extra special, he tells her how much he appreciates your effort at work and you play a major role in the company’s success.  

Nick here is the cooperative type. The sign above his head says, “YOU’RE AWESOME!

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The proper behavior for the cooperative person is to work together!

He wants to help you by adding value to your situation.

You in return do the same for him. This is the type of person you should strive to be!

Your Best Version

If you want to take the cooperative type a step further, you can envision your best version.  

You can start by picking traits from your idols and role models. For example, one of the traits I idolize is Bruce Lee’s adaptability to any environment.

“Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot.  Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

― Bruce Lee

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To be exceptional, you must elevate every facet of life.

If you have traits you idolize in someone, strive to become more like that person. You have the power to choose others’ best qualities, traits, and attributes and combining them into your ideal self.

Because perfection doesn’t exist, there will always be room for improvement. But at the same time, your current state is already exceptional. Improve yourself because you want to, not because you’re not good enough.

Closing Thoughts

In the past, you’ve been supplicative (submissive), combative, and competitive because of your ego – based on your perception of self-worth.

Feeling low-valued, you seek it out externally, the reason why the supplicative (submissive) and combative types behave the way they do.

The supplicative (submissive) type seeks value by pleasing others while the combative type makes himself feel high-valued by putting others down.

As for the competitive type, it has to do with your primal survival instinct. You compete because you want to survive and live longer.

For example, if your colleague gets a promotion and you didn’t, your subconscious mind can start to doubt your abilities at work. And when the company isn’t doing well financially, you would think you will be ahead of the list for layoffs before your recently promoted coworker.

The likelihood of this happening is extremely low, but you subconsciously think in terms of survival. Therefore, you’re inclined to prove to others you’re better than them. When chased by a lion, you don’t have to outrun it to survive. You just have to run faster than the person behind you.

When you’re being cooperative and your best, you create win-win situations by adding value in any situation.

No matter what stage of life you’re in, you always have value to give. It can be as simple as genuinely smiling at someone. Other forms may include providing attention, approval, and acceptance.

Despite being cooperative, you will encounter others who won’t respond positively. But it’s in those situations, your reactions depict your true value.

Although doing your best to persuade and influence others, you can never completely control them. However, you always have command in choosing how you respond to each situation.

Cooperative people add value to others because they see others’ victories and successes as their own. They know their relationships with others are strong.

  • How attractive would you be to others if you were constantly well-liked by everyone?
  • What kind of benefits would you experience?
  • Wouldn’t you want to be more cooperative after seeing those results?

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Comprehending the different personality archetypes allows you to identify it in others. In addition, this will also increase your awareness of the type of person you portray in your daily interactions.

The winning formula is to give value because you will inevitably receive in one form or another. Armed with this transformational knowledge, go out, connect with others, and be the cooperative and high-value person that you are.

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