Honor the Struggle and Embrace Growth

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Napoleon Hill

Appreciate Harsh Adversity

After I left my job in 2016 to start my venture of helping others, I had the intention of making it grow into a profitable business.

But as I have discovered, rarely does life unfold the way I want it to. It has mysterious and insightful methods of telling me what I need to learn. It’s my arena for growth.

Despite not creating a sustainable income within my projected timeline, I gained numerous important skills and lessons. On top of doing meaningful work, I acquired valuable wisdom and made new relationships.

Although I was confronted with difficult challenges, I wanted to continue. As a result, I decided to grow my business on the side while working full time.

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Not letting my ego and others’ opinions control me, I found another way to generate a steady income. Having the peace of mind knowing all my bills are paid, I can use the free time outside of my job to focus on my venture.

This winning strategy allows me to help myself and others.

While being in the pit of struggles, I was tempted to give up because that would be the easier thing to do. However, my deep sense of purpose prevailed and enabled me to persevere.

Embrace Uncertainty

If you have a deep and burning desire for something, you must be willing to fight for it even if you don’t know what the outcome might be.

Trust the process, and more importantly, believe in yourself.

You can be your biggest ally or enemy. Choose the former and let it be your strongest proponent.

Give yourself the best chance to achieve your goals and dreams by first learning to help yourself. That way, you can create opportunities for others to do the same.

Your network of relationships will be an invaluable asset when trying to achieve your goals. They will build connections and possibilities through introductions. As a result, they can propel you forward to greater heights.

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Understand this important fact:

No matter what happens in life, you can handle it.

The time it requires to overcome your unique challenges varies depends on your experience, knowledge, and support from others.

As you conquer more obstacles, you’ll gain more trust and confidence in yourself to confront uncertainty and drawbacks.

Complete Your Hero’s Journey

Life is inevitably filled with difficulties and issues. They are designed to help you grow.

And as a courageous and powerful warrior, you wouldn’t want it any other way. That’s because an adventurous life composes of both ups and downs. It’s in the darkest moments which you build resilience, fortitude, and grit to move forward.

This creates a better story.

If your life were a movie, would you want to watch it?

Your challenge presents a moment of decision. It’s your golden opportunity to stand and rise as a relentless and determined soldier.

By embarking on your hero’s journey, you have the chance to complete it and learn the invaluable lessons. Without going through your necessary transformation, you won’t absorb those teachings.

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Ask yourself:

“What am I willing to suffer, bleed, or even die for?”

Discover those powerful nuggets of wisdom through your own personal experience. The level of magnitude will be that much deeper because of your hands-on understanding.

You won’t have the same effect if you had gained the knowledge from reading a book or hearing it from someone else. By going enduring and conquering those defeats, you’ll internalize those findings.

No matter how difficult your hardships may be, there’s always light at the end of the tunnel.

You can take as many breaks as you want, but don’t stop moving. Regardless of how steep the climb is, maintain persistence and march forward.

Gain the information you want by finishing the course. Your future self will thank you for it, and so will those who will learn from you.

Closing Thoughts

Motivation is required to get started. But to complete anything takes discipline, persistence, and determination.

Why even start something if you’re not willing to finish it?

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As the snowball effect increases, you’ll produce more trust, belief, and confidence in yourself, allowing you to take on any task, regardless of how intimidating it may be.

You understand struggles are a necessary part of growth and evolution. Hence, you welcome them with open arms.

And as soon as you crush those trials and tribulations, you’ll evolve and gain important lessons in your plethora arsenal of wisdom.

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