“The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose.” - Richard Leider Your Life's Purpose Are you living a life of purpose? Do you feel excited waking up in the morning to start your day or do you dread about how your day will unfold?   Are you grounded like a mountain and know what you stand for or are you just...
“Accountability breeds response-ability.” – Stephen Covey Personal Accountability Personal accountability creates excellence. Every one of my goals is important to me because they give guidance and direction in my life. Here are some of my current daily goals. Deliberately practice swimming Meet two attractive women Write a minimum of 500 words Answer one Quora question Although achieving these goals are important, I don’t...
“Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones.” - Benjamin Franklin Do you like to watch porn? Have you used porn as a way to masturbate? Do you use porn and masturbation as a tool make yourself feel good instantly? If so, I used to do that too. I first discovered porn...
“We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” ― May Sarton As I celebrated my 30th birthday in February, I reflected back on the valuable lessons that I learned in my 20s. Here are my biggest takeaways. 1. Be 100% Unapologetic This is the most important lesson that I learned in my 20s. Being myself was difficult as...
“A man must love his father and yet be free of his father’s expectations and criticisms in order to be a free man.” — David Deida Your Biggest Influence As a first generation immigrant, my biggest influence in life is my parents.I experienced poverty growing up in a rural village in China with a small rice field with no running water. Growing up...
“Consistent action creates consistent results.” ― Christine Kane Define Your Success Action speaks priority in my life and my recipe for success is consistent action. Success to me is not based on external things such as how much money is in my bank account, how big my house is, how fancy my car is, or how beautiful my woman is. My definition of success...
“Is freedom anything else than the right to live as we wish? Nothing else.” —Epictetus Invest In Freedom My definition of freedom is to have the power to choose what I want to do, where I want to live, and whom I want to spend my time with. By investing in freedom now, I can clearly identify my financial needs and wants. Valuing...
“Happiness comes from within. It is not dependent on external things or on other people. You become vulnerable and can be easily hurt when your feelings of security and happiness depend on the behavior and actions of other people. Never give your power to anyone else.” ― Brian L. Weiss Definition of Happiness Happiness is the joy you feel as you’re growing...
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” ― C.G. Jung Start With the End In Mind A simple but a powerful mental exercise that I do regularly is to review my obituary. The key questions that I ask myself are: Why do I do what I do? Am I living my life with the desired end in mind? How would...
“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” ― Epicurus Practice gratitude and you'll be more grounded and grateful in life. When I visited my parents this past Christmas and New Years, I reconnected with someone whom I haven’t seen since high...

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