"Inside each of us is a natural born storyteller just waiting to be released." – Robin Moore Self-Discovery Journey In early 2013, I had everything that I was supposed to have - a well-paid job, a nice car, and great friends. In addition, I was working hard to save money to buy a house while deliberately working on my dating life. Despite having all that,...
“Networking is not about hunting. It’s about farming. It’s about cultivating relationships.” ― Ivan Misner The Importance Of Networking Networking is all about building relationships. Valuing my network as my net worth, I invest time and effort to nourish my current network and to continuously expand my network. In early 2013, I was working for a start-up biotech company in the San Francisco...
“I never listen to what a person says. I look at what a person does because what they do tells me who they really are.” ― Patty Houser Live With Integrity Do you live with integrity by saying what you mean and mean what you say? Often times, I meet people who don’t follow through with their words. They say what I want to...
“Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.” ― John Gray Dating Journey Understanding the feminine was always a constant struggle in my journey with getting better with women. During my journey, I’ve met many interesting women along the way. Some were more interesting than others, but they were all uniquely special in their own way. Viewing dating...
“To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.” ― Charles T. Munger Become a Chooser Become a chooser and deserve what you want in life, including in your romantic relationships. Your most fundamental need in life is survival. Your next “need” is procreation. Hence,...
“In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.” ― Robert Glover “Nice Guy” Syndrome Are a man with true masculinity or are you a...
“What makes your vulnerable makes you beautiful” ― Brené Brown To create deep and meaningful connections with others, you should make a positive first impression, build rapport, and use the power of vulnerability. Your first impression has huge impacts on your connections with others. You make your first impression in about one-tenth of a second and you never get a second chance at making it. With a...
“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity" ― Seneca Are you looking to improve your dating life? Do you want a high-quality woman who you value? Are you tired of dating women who aren't right for you? If you ask your social circle for dating advice, the most common one you get is “just be yourself.” They’re not wrong about that advice. You definitely want...
“Be the kind of person you want others to be.” ― Anurag Prakash Ray In social dynamics, there are four main personality archetypes and they're not gender-specific. To show you each, let's imagine you're in a two-piece suit attending a fancy party for work. In your hand, you're holding your favorite drink. The Supplicative (Submissive) Type The room has many of your coworkers and you see...
“The good life is built with good relationships.” ― Robert Waldinger The Benefits of Meaningful Relationships The quality of your romantic and platonic relationships impacts your overall health and happiness.  Quality beats quantity when it comes to relationships. Having healthy relationships allows you to: Live longer - commitment for a life partner. Better cope with stress - support from family and friends. Be physically healthier -...

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