“Success is something you attract by the person you become.”
― Jim Rohn
You Attract Who You Are
Recently, I attended a wedding with my fiance, and I was reminded of a particular one when I was a groomsman.
During that event, the bridesmaid with whom I walked down the aisle liked one of the married groomsmen.
Although the bridesmaid had expressed interest in him when he was single, the feelings weren’t mutual.
Later that evening, the party progressed with alcoholic drinks, and the bridesmaid showed jealousy and resentment for the groomsman’s wife.
To deal with this, she sought attention from the other groomsmen including myself.
Her desperate behavior came from a place of lack and the need for validation.
Given her behaviors and actions, there were misalignments of values which included the following:
- Health
- Self-love
- Growth
By having very disparate merits and lifestyles, she wasn’t compatible with the bachelors or myself.
Rise to New Levels
When you continuously work on yourself to grow and evolve, you unleash your full potential to become your best.
And as a byproduct, you create opportunities and attract others who are also on a similar journey by showing up in places where they reside.
And in those areas, you can easily connect with them because you both exude comparable energy and vibrate at the same frequency.
By having like-minded and wholesome people who have common interests, similar values and beliefs, you can help propel each other to new heights.
That’s because iron sharpens iron.
This way, you both can grow and move forward.
Become the Man You Aspire to Be and Your Partner Deserves
Regardless if you are single or in a relationship, always strive to be your best so you can give that to others.
For others to find you attractive, you must become the man that they want to date.
That’s what it means to deserve what you want.
It is about developing yourself to the best of your abilities on the lifelong journey and attracting a partner who is also doing the same.
And that important similarity of growth is what creates initial interest and lasting commitment.
Therefore, be the man with qualities your partner desperately craves you to be, just as you desire her to be for you.
Because when you can remove her doubt and worries with your lead and assertiveness, you set her free.
By having that mutual feeling for one other is when you truly deserve each other.
Closing Thoughts
In popular culture and media, couples are shown to have different values of being exciting and fun, and there is a level of accepted continual fighting and disagreement.
However, those aren’t signs of a healthy relationship.
Additionally, once that initial fire of opposites dims, the truth emerges and both parties must face deep-level conversations such as their beliefs, values, and lifestyles.
And to have long-term relational success, compatibilities in both parties’ non-negotiables are critical.
Along with trust and respect, they are the foundations of a strong partnership.
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