“The most loving women are the women who will test you the most.”
― David Deida
Attraction to the Feminine
As a man, I have both masculine and feminine energy.
But filled with more masculinity, I am naturally attracted to things and people filled with feminine energy – anything that’s radiant, alive, relaxing, moving, and enlivening. They may include the following:
- Energizing music
- Playful dance
- Warm ocean breeze
- Scenic mountain view
- Gorgeous women
As for romantic relationships, the difference in polarity is what causes sexual attraction.
Hence, I find the following most appealing in a woman.
- Long hair
- Smooth skin
- Soft-touch
- Playful personality
- Soothing voice
- Friendly smile
Because most women have a strong feminine essence, I’m innately captivated by them.
However, this doesn’t mean I must act on those impulses. There’s a huge difference between feeling the enticement and carrying them out.
This is especially important when I’m in a committed relationship.
To enjoy this blissful phenomenon, I simply fully breathe in her feminine radiance and let it disperse throughout my entire body. This way, I can experience her graceful brilliance.
I realize it’s a blessing to be surrounded by her beauty and magnificence.
After this fleeting feeling fades away, my heart goes back to the woman I’m with. That’s because she and I have a deep and meaningful connection that goes beyond our physical attraction.
We’re connected on an emotional and psychological level as well.
Don’t Make Her Your First Priority
Although your woman is important, don’t make her your number one. You might think she wants to be your first priority, but that’s not true.
A part of her definitely desires your love. However, she also wants you to follow your heart. Because by living your truth, you can be trusted.
Your purpose is your number one priority. This unique mission is the inner compass for all your decisions.
She wants to feel your authentic core and you can only achieve that by executing your deepest impulse.
By not making her your highest importance, you’re stripping her of the responsibility to make you whole. You rid your partner of the pressure to make you happy.
Deep down, she wants you to choose your purpose over the relationship. That way, she can surrender to your guidance and love.
However, this doesn’t mean you don’t treasure her, not at all. You still dedicate time and effort to developing intimacy. And over time, your affection for each other strengthens.
At the core, you’re driven by freedom, contrary to her strong feminine radiance for love. But ultimately, those two are the same. However, the journey of getting there is immensely different.
Grow Together Intimately
As a strong, mature, and masculine man, you’re responsible for taking care of yourself and sharing your gift with the world, including your woman.
With your virile presence, you provide guidance for all. This includes knowing the following:
- Who you are
- Where you want to go
- What must be done to get there
By sharing your masculine gift with your woman, you give her direction, improve her mood, and open her heart for love. On a regular basis, you lead her to higher levels of affection and closeness. This may include having the following:
- New date activities
- Spontaneous trips
- Meaningful conversations
- Exciting sexual acts
To reciprocate, she offers you vitality, sensation, and connection. Through her warm touch, passionate love, and stunning beauty, she gives you energy, makes you feel absolute, alive, and ready to take on the world.
With her feminine support, you can create a more significant impact. Therefore, it’s crucial you invest in your relationship.
Taking on the masculine role, you become a leader by simply living your true purpose. Through stepping into your warrior spirit, you pierce through her ephemeral emotional problems. And by making decisions while valuing her opinions, you’ll provide her with clarity and stability.
That’s because the feminine does not want to be forced to make decisions in the relationship.
It’s more attractive when you take control. As a result, she can follow your lead and relax knowing you have everything taken care of.
This is equivalent to her intentionally kissing you fondly when you return home after a long day of work. However, you wouldn’t find it as appealing if you had to ask her to do it. That’s because you won’t feel her playful feminine essence caressing you.
When you step into your masculine, you ignite her feminine.
To deepen your fondness for your woman, you must proactively learn new ways in which you can grow the relationship. It may include the following:
- Reading books about sexual psychology
- Attending workshops on couples therapy
- Watching videos about fun date ideas
- Listening to easy tips regarding travels
A powerful thing you can say to her is this:
“I want to go deeper with you. I want more. I want to take our relationship to the next level.”
Your woman will be excited to hear this. She might be afraid but thrilled for your willingness to desire more.
Although the job falls on you to mature the connection, this doesn’t mean your partner can’t or won’t contribute to it. However, it’s your responsibility to further relational development. It’s a lifelong commitment as long as you both love each other.
Closing Thoughts
Having strong masculine energy, you’re inherently attracted to the feminine. But just because you’re drawn to other beautiful women does not mean you must act on those urges.
You ultimately control your own thoughts, words, and actions.
To you, attraction goes far beyond superficial physical appearance. It’s the deep emotional and passionate connection you have with her.
To make it flourish, dedicate time and effort to strengthen your intimacy.
Although she’s important, don’t make her your first priority because she will secretly resent you for it.
Your purpose must come first.
Therefore, continue to execute your mission by unleashing your masculinity. In doing so, you’ll liberate her femininity which will add to every aspect of your life.
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