“Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.”
― Dan Pena
Find Your Tribe
In 2017, I spent a week in Los Angeles, California for a personal development program.
And that is when I met seven other wholesome men who also wanted to become better versions of themselves. We were all deeply committed because of the high cost (program and other expenses) and spending a week in a new location.
As the event went on, our bond grew stronger after learning more about each other through group exercises.
Soon, we were a band of brothers pushing one another to excel and expand our comfort zone.
Additionally, we celebrated our successes and saw them as our own.
As the program came to an end, we parted ways and went back to our individual lives.
For a while, we maintained contact with the residual momentum we gained from the program. However, that fading energy eventually dissipated and we stopped all communication.
To keep myself playing at a high level, I actively seek out other wholesome men and women in my local area.
And this is a lifelong journey to continue the expansion of my band of brothers and strap of sisters.
Elevated Your Life
To build a team of wholesome and conscious people, you must become one yourself.
That’s the key to attracting and keeping them in your life.
Because these high-level individuals value themselves and their time, they strictly want to spend them with those who are genuine and truly want to add value to their life.
To perform your best, you must live with high standards that include the following:
- Impeccable integrity
- Full responsibility
- Well-balanced life
- Personal accountability
- Self-awareness
- Courage to embrace discomfort
- Compassion for self and others
Through dedicated and continuous efforts, you can create connections that have mutual reciprocity, respect, and deep appreciation.
And by having the capacity to speak your truth and hold space for difficult conversations, you enable others to evolve by trusting that they take full responsibility for their life.
Add Great Players To Your Team
To find these rare yet powerful men and women, you must go to the places where they reside.
These individuals live a well-balanced life and they focus on all aspects which include health, wealth, relationships, and personal growth. Therefore, you may encounter them in areas such as the following:
Health and Fitness
- Gym, hiking trails, and farmer’s markets
Spirituality
- Meditation centers and yoga studios
Personal growth
- Personal development seminars and events
Professional advancement
- Business conferences and technical workshops
After connecting with them, you can further nourish these reciprocal relationships by adding true value – what they desire and love languages. Additionally, you can learn more about them – who they are and what they care about.
Closing Thoughts
What makes a person’s value has nothing to do with one’s net worth.
It has everything to do with one’s character. This includes the level of integrity, commitment, responsibility, ethics, and way of life.
By being an amazing example, you become the shining light for those who aspire to be their best. And as a byproduct, you also attract other wholesome individuals into your life.
Make a conscious effort to seek them out and create these intentional and lasting connections.
I am on a mission to help 1,000,000 people, and I can’t do that without your help. Please share this article with anyone who you may think will find it valuable and helpful. Thank you very much! I greatly appreciate it!
Do you want to live purposefully and become the most powerful version of yourself? If so, start with your free gift down below.
