“In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.” ― Robert Glover “Nice Guy” Syndrome Are a man with true masculinity or are you a...
“Be the kind of person you want others to be.” ― Anurag Prakash Ray In social dynamics, there are four main personality archetypes and they're not gender-specific. To show you each, let's imagine you're in a two-piece suit attending a fancy party for work. In your hand, you're holding your favorite drink. The Supplicative (Submissive) Type The room has many of your coworkers and you see...
  “A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” – John C. Maxwell Be The Leader Of Your Life Becoming a leader means taking full responsibility for my life. In my early 20s, I was a follower devoted to society’s formula for success and happiness seeking comfort. The recipe was a step-by-step guide to having a "successful" and problem-free...
“I never listen to what a person says. I look at what a person does because what they do tells me who they really are.” ― Patty Houser Live With Integrity Do you live with integrity by saying what you mean and mean what you say? Often times, I meet people who don’t follow through with their words. They say what I want to...
“The first step to being more attractive is to see rejection as a means to eliminate women who won't make you happy from your life. It's a blessing, not a curse.” ― Mark Manson Identify Clearly What You Want In A Woman There are an abundant amount of beautiful and attractive women everywhere, especially in metropolitan cities. However, my chances of being...
“Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.” ― John Gray Dating Journey Understanding the feminine was always a constant struggle in my journey with getting better with women. During my journey, I’ve met many interesting women along the way. Some were more interesting than others, but they were all uniquely special in their own way. Viewing dating...
“To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.” ― Charles T. Munger Become a Chooser Become a chooser and deserve what you want in life, including in your romantic relationships. Your most fundamental need in life is survival. Your next “need” is procreation. Hence,...
“The good life is built with good relationships.” ― Robert Waldinger The Benefits of Meaningful Relationships The quality of your romantic and platonic relationships impacts your overall health and happiness.  Quality beats quantity when it comes to relationships. Having healthy relationships allows you to: Live longer - commitment for a life partner. Better cope with stress - support from family and friends. Be physically healthier -...
“Your network is your net worth.” ― Tim Sanders The Layers of Social Network Valuing relationships, I always invest time in further deepening my existing my connections. To expand my network, I’m constantly meeting new people. In addition, I’m always evaluating my current relationships and filter in the “right” people - those who believe in me and lift me higher. In the process, I...
“Networking is not about hunting. It’s about farming. It’s about cultivating relationships.” ― Ivan Misner The Importance Of Networking Networking is all about building relationships. Valuing my network as my net worth, I invest time and effort to nourish my current network and to continuously expand my network. In early 2013, I was working for a start-up biotech company in the San Francisco...

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