“To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.” ― Charles T. Munger Become a Chooser Become a chooser and deserve what you want in life, including in your romantic relationships. Your most fundamental need in life is survival. Your next “need” is procreation. Hence,...
“What makes your vulnerable makes you beautiful” ― Brené Brown To create deep and meaningful connections with others, you should make a positive first impression, build rapport, and use the power of vulnerability. Your first impression has huge impacts on your connections with others. You make your first impression in about one-tenth of a second and you never get a second chance at making it. With a...
“Networking is not about hunting. It’s about farming. It’s about cultivating relationships.” ― Ivan Misner The Importance Of Networking Networking is all about building relationships. Valuing my network as my net worth, I invest time and effort to nourish my current network and to continuously expand my network. In early 2013, I was working for a start-up biotech company in the San Francisco...
“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity" ― Seneca Are you looking to improve your dating life? Do you want a high-quality woman who you value? Are you tired of dating women who aren't right for you? If you ask your social circle for dating advice, the most common one you get is “just be yourself.” They’re not wrong about that advice. You definitely want...
“In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.” ― Robert Glover The “Nice Guy” Syndrome Are you a man with true masculinity or are...
“I never listen to what a person says. I look at what a person does because what they do tells me who they really are.” ― Patty Houser Live With Integrity Do you live with integrity by saying what you mean and mean what you say? Often times, I meet people who don’t follow through with their words. They say what I want to...
  “A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” – John C. Maxwell Be The Leader Of Your Life Becoming a leader means taking full responsibility for my life. In my early 20s, I was a follower devoted to society’s formula for success and happiness seeking comfort. The recipe was a step-by-step guide to having a "successful" and problem-free...
“The good life is built with good relationships.” ― Robert Waldinger The Benefits of Meaningful Relationships The quality of your romantic and platonic relationships impacts your overall health and happiness.  Quality beats quantity when it comes to relationships. Having healthy relationships allows you to: Live longer - commitment for a life partner. Better cope with stress - support from family and friends. Be physically healthier -...
“The first step to being more attractive is to see rejection as a means to eliminate women who won't make you happy from your life. It's a blessing, not a curse.” ― Mark Manson Identify Clearly What You Want In A Woman There are an abundant amount of beautiful and attractive women everywhere, especially in metropolitan cities. However, my chances of being...
"Inside each of us is a natural born storyteller just waiting to be released." – Robin Moore Self-Discovery Journey In early 2013, I had everything that I was supposed to have - a well-paid job, a nice car, and great friends. In addition, I was working hard to save money to buy a house while deliberately working on my dating life. Despite having all that,...

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